Hi I am looking for some advice I met a really nice great guy a few weeks ago and we have hit it off pretty well, talking until wee hours of the morning, texting, sharing lots of stuff about ourselves. You deserve love too…and someone else deserves the chance to get to know you. I don't know how it is for other girls, but personally, even when I'm approached by guys who claim that they're interested, I still manage to inevitably begin avoiding them. Some individuals are held captive by their symptoms and struggle to be what others need them to be. So I just feel very ignorant about people, since I forcibly sheltered myself from them. Kind of like a persona, but different as she didn't become someone else, she was clearly hiding something distressing and pretending everything was ok.
The degree to how much therapy works is proportional to how much YOU are willing to work and how well you work with your therapist.
Understanding The Avoidant Personality: 6 Ways to Cope
You still have time to improve yourself, and you have the very good fortune of being a girl with this problem rather than a guy, so the outlooks is relatively good. But I learnt that I could never help her and I would never change her and it wasn't my job to help her. Also, like most avoidant males, I am completely incapable of turning this desire into reality. This needs a sticky thread!! It's really great to get support like that from a close partner.
Carolyn. i'm a sexy young lady with love to please attuide.. i love meeting new people from all walks of life. i am very passionate and caring young lady. i am ambitious and strive what i want with want with full focus. i have a killer body and very high sexy appeal. i love when men engages with me as strot my stuff.